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This One's For Laura...

Screen Shot 2014-09-30 at 8.17.00 AM.pngThere's something about having friends from your childhood that instantly make you feel 15 again the moment you hear from them. That's what it's like for the group of girls who have been in my life since high school. We've been there for one another through the ups and downs of each of our lives and I feel lucky to know that no matter where we are, something always brings us back together.

Tonight, I dedicate this trip down memory lane to my dear friend Laura. During my teenage years I spent a lot of time hanging out at Laura's house where I'd get to see her dad Nelson - one of the nicest and coolest fathers I had ever met. Whenever I stopped by, Nelson always had a smile on his face, asked how I was doing and kept the conversation going when most dads would have probably left the room and disappeared. I definitely think that much of Laura's upbeat and optimistic personality came from her dad. When we were 15 and had the world at our feet, we never thought of losing our parents because they all seemed so invincible. Come to think of it, they were probably the same age we are now dealing with many of the same stresses we face on a daily basis.

Somehow, 30 years have passed since those days hanging out at Laura's and I haven't seen my dear friend in nearly 12 years. Sure, we chat on the phone once in awhile and text one another on our birthdays and talk about how important it is for us to find a date when we can all get together, but work and life always seem to get in the way and that never seems to happen. Until now.

Today I found out that Laura's incredibly vibrant dad passed away suddenly as a result of a heart attack and as my dear friend prepares to say goodbye, I know it's going to be incredibly hard to face a world without one of the most supportive and positive people on the planet looking out for her.

Luckily, Laura and her sister Karen got the chance to see their dad last week while visiting him in Florida and when I saw their pictures on Facebook, I couldn't believe how great he looked -- it was as if he had never changed from the days we used to hang out at Laura's house and he'd pop in once in a while to make sure we were all doing fine.

Nelson Beller was one of the greats -- a great father, grandfather and friend with an incredibly positive outlook on life. My heart aches for his two daughters Laura and Karen and all I know is that the memories of this incredibly happy go lucky guy who seemed invincible when we were 15 will never fade away no matter how old we get. Rest in peace Nelson Beller. You will be sorely missed.

Posted in: *Inspiring Moms, Blog, Role Mommy Confessions on 09/29/2014


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  • Yogi

    My father wanted me to post this: Nelson was my father's best friend. He knew Nelson for over 50 years and they thought of each other as brothers. My father trusted Nelson so much that he was expecting Nelson to take care of things when my father passed. My father told me that Nelson always said thank you and appreciated everything and everyone that he met. Nelson went to my bar mitzvah and I was happy when I saw him at my father's home for whatever occasion there was. Nelson was there for my father's 70th birthday and was proud to show pictures of his girls to everybody. It has been many years since I have seen his daughters and was proud to see how well they grew up. Nelson was so proud of them as well. My father has so many things to say about him and I wish I was able to mention everything. My father will always love Nelson and he wanted me to share this with everybody. Thank you for reading this. Michael Kolt

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