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Happy Birthday to Me...What I Know Now

A few years back, in honor of my 44th birthday, I decided to write an inspiring post about the 44 things I wanted to reflect on that year. Part bucket list, part trip down memory lane, my 44 memories had me waxing nostalgic about my life and looking forward to the future.

Enter 46.

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Two years have passed and since that time, while I still have experienced some amazing memories - another fabulous Bar Mitzvah, a wonderful family vacation, a new business for my husband and work, work and more work, I honestly feel like the time that has passed has been a bit of a blur...partially because I desperately need glasses but haven't had a chance to get my prescription filled. But despite my fuzzy vision, here's the 46 things I've learned over the last two years.

1. It's super hard to lose weight - especially as you get older.
2. Life is too short to care about the size of your butt.
3. People who you think are your friends will let you down.
4. Life is too short to care about those people.
5. The people who truly love and care about you will always be there for you.
6. Surround yourself with those people.
7. Things are going to break in your house and you are going to have to fix them.
8. Money is going to be tight but you will figure it out no matter what bill appears on your doorstep.
9. Still do what you love. If that means writing - then keep your blog going. If that means singing, take a long drive without anyone in the car and blast that Sirius XM. Or, take a long walk with your dog and sing out Louise.
10. Cleaning out your closets is super cathartic.
11. Buy yourself one good purse every year.
12. Sometimes all it takes is a great dress to make you feel better about yourself.
13. Never give up date night or else you are sunk.
14. Adopt a dog - if you aren't allergic.
15. Accept that there are toxic people out there and make it your business to avoid them at all costs.
16. If you can't avoid a toxic person because you have to work with them, then ignore them. Don't feed into their negativity. They've chosen to be mean or negative. You don't need to join their Bitter Party.
17. Have regular dinners with your family.
18. Especially as they get older, it's super important to connect with your kids.
19. Be open and honest about your past with your kids so they can possibly learn from your mistakes.
20. Stay in on a rainy day and watch a movie marathon starring Drew Barrymore, Sally Field or Julia Roberts.
21. Take a break from technology...okay - not going to happen.
22. Reconnect with old friends and find ways to see them more often.
23. Try new things and open yourself up to the possibilities.
24. Volunteer your time to causes you feel strongly about.
25. Support good people.
26. Crack jokes and laugh often.
27. Life changes on a dime. Tell your family you love them every single night of the week.
28. Don't let jerks rent space in your head.
29. Spend lots of time with your pets. If it wasn't for our dog, I think I would be way more stressed than I am now.
30. Start looking at places you want to retire.
31. Try not to let college tuition sticker shock get you depressed.
32. Don't try to be your teen's best friend. Be their mom first, friend second.
33. Enjoy your weekends and try not to work.
34. Celebrate important milestones with your family and close friends.
35. Learn how to say "no" a lot more.
36. Read at least 10 books every year.
37. Have chocolate and wine every night.
38. Don't take everything in your life so seriously.
39. Sleep at least 9-10 hours every night.
40. Encourage your kids to do what they love but don't force your own dreams upon them.
41. Spend your life with a partner who makes you laugh, supports your dreams and is there for you during good times and bad.
42. Tell your parents if they are still around that you love and appreciate them.
43. Make sure your kids spend time with their grandparents as much as they can.
44. Never take anything in your life for granted.
45. Say please, thank you and tell perfect strangers to have a nice day.
46. Dress like a professional even when everyone around you are wearing hoodies.

So there you have it. My list of 46 for my birthday. I guess as I've gotten older, I've become more practical. Sure I still have dreams but sometimes, I'd rather just collapse after a long day and start dreaming on my tempurpedic mattress.

Posted in: Blog on 10/13/2015

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